What you reap is what you sow?!

To lie one's heart on the line and give it to someone dear ... I guess one needs alot of thinking and courage before committing as there is way too much of risk, uncertainity and fear involved when it comes to relationship.

It is not as simple as "what you reap is what you sow". The outcome may be more surprising as you have excepted. So will it be better for one to be loved and get all the attention from the other? How often could we find that someone who is willing to give unconditionally? I guess it is rather difficult and rare in this world as all need love and wish to be loved. Therefore, we tend to be selfish and self-centred when it comes to LOVE (although I still believe that someone still exists).

There is always a saying, "the more you give, the more the return". It not only applies to the honeymoon period that both of you had gone through but also the thereafter result when both become strangers/friends/enemies when one relationship ended. The more you loved himin the past, the more you hate him after that.

Deleting his mobile number, email address, msn adress, pitures, etc = forgetting him and erasing every single detail of him in your memory?! If that is really the case, we should not even call ourselves human and I guess PC is the best word to describe us. Forgiving someone is not forgetting him completely, but "erasing" the things he had done to hurt you in the past. It may take one day, one week, one month, one year or even one decade to forgive and forget.

LOVE = no pain, no gain?! I don't have a definite answer to it now but I am sure of one thing, everyone in this world, including you, yes you, and me, needs LOVE ....