Xmas 2008

a Xmas which was different from last 2 years ...

Baby and I didn't spend Xmas eve together ...

we went out separately to attend our friends' Xmas party ... =)


my galfriend would usually have a Xmas party at her place ...

she would invited her brothers and family over ... and also another close galfriend's family ...

this year round, out of the norm, she invited me over ... 4 families and one special guest ---> ME ... haha


Initially felt kinda out of the place since it was more like a family gathering ...

but as a PR butterfly, everything was put in place in no time ...

we had delicious food and good conversations ...

until my other galfriend touched on a TABOO subject ... GAY ...


never did I realise my friends are so freaked out when encountering with PLUs ...

and also, their reactions can be so extreme (i.e. fisting) if things go out of the norm ...

we can't blame them ...

perhaps this is how someone "normal" will deal with someone "abnormal" in this aspect ...

though it was sort of unpleasant to my ears, but at least I got to know their points of view ...


choosing and leading a life of my own ...

I still wish to minimise the damages it would bring to my loved ones ... :)


Merry belated Xmas ...

Happy 2009 ...

and soon, Happy Lunar New Year ... hehe ... Gong Xi Gong Xi!

almost one month ...

time really flies ...

almost one month ... working and studying ...

still coping well ...

hope I can endure and endure ...

and 2 years will pass quickly without me noticing ... =)