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How you get undressed reveals your personality....

1) throw your clothes all over the place
2) remove each piece of clothing and put it away carefully
3) take off the shirt, and ten minutes later get around to the pants
4) get out of your clothes as quickly as possible
5) take off your rings, earrings, necklace, watch, etcetera before anything else
6) don't have an undressing routine




Answers:

1) If you throw your clothes all over the place, you are a friendly,life-of-the-party type. You are free with your thoughts and opinions, not caring much about what others think of you. Your parents might think your room looks like a cyclone hit it? but it actually represents your happy, individualistic nature! ( OH NO ...MY SONS ROOMS!!!)

2) If you remove each piece of clothing and put it away carefully, you are a serious person who likes her life to be very calm. You are comfortable with routine, and you believe that the best! way to deal with life's problems is to prevent them in the first place. You are a perfectionist. By nature you are quite shy. You are observant and you know more about some people than they think, just because you've watched them. You are dependable and sometimes intense. You think carefully before making decisions. You go about your tasks methodically, with concentration. You know how to pay attention.

3) If you take off the shirt, and ten minutes later get around to the pants, you are an extremely self-confident person. You are naturally bright and intellectual. You are also a deep thinker who loves to ask questions and ponder the meaning of things. You hate being rushed and you do not like to be hassled. Usually you like a lot of free time for yourself.

4) If you get out of your clothes as quickly as possible, you are concerned about others and what they expect from you, but you're worried about your own needs. You are family-oriented, and stay extremely busy. You often feel stressed, but most of those heavy expectations come from your own head! Give yourself a break; you don't have to be perfect.

5) If you take off your rings, earrings, necklace, watch, etc. before anything else, you are a warm and sensitive person. You are considerate and thoughtful, and you give good advice to your friends. You are a natural born romantic.

6) If you don't have an undressing routine and you never do it the same way twice, you are a very curious and interesting person. You enjoy a broad range of activities. You take risks and enjoy fun and adventure. You are very social.


I choose 2 and 4 ... Try it as I think it is rather true about me ... ... =)

Oh NO ...

I think I am more and more like Jon ... haha Good or bad?! I don't know haha ...

I am looking forward to an interesting and fun week ahead :P

What a night!

There is this nice chill out cafe @ Prinsep Street (Opps Paradiz Centre), which I came across a month ago. It is not only a cozy place for friends to hang out together, but it also provides a platform for music / KTV lovers to perform on. It is like an unplugged session which someone will play the music for you while you sing. A 5 minutes of fame I guess ... haha

EYE-Z and I were there @ Hark Music Cafe last night as I promised to bring him to check out the place when he was back from Bangkok (if not, this slut will not spare me from his nagging haha ... opps). His friend and his friend's friend joined us later on (their relationship are rather complicated so I will spare the juicy details haha).

As what I have expected, he loved the place like I did. He even performed 2 Chinese songs on stage. I was really proud of him last night as he managed to overcome the language barrier and performed so well (not like me haiz ...) Plus, their services are good, especially the Assistant Manager, Jane. That is why I am pretty sure we will become their regular customers. =)

It is HIGHLY RECOMMENDED by me so if you want to "perform" / learn how to sing, do check out their website @ www.harkmusic.com .

I am back ...

Though I am tired and muscle aching now (perhaps never sleep well for the past few days) , however, I think I should do something to my blog before it is completely covered with spider web or rust due to the wet weather lately haha =)

To me, blogging is just like writing personal diaries online. Differences between writing online and writing in a book are that:

1. you will not lost your daily entries posted online unless the webster decides to shut it down but I don't foresee anything like that will happen in the near future. Unlike writting in the book, you may misplace it anytime.
2. it is not as private when you are writting online as to writing in a book. Many, like thousands or even millions, will be able to see what you write online and reply to your posting if they have any comment.
3. there are some restrictions where some issues / topics we could not publicly talk about online as they are highly senstive.

Yes, it is our so-called diary. But we still need to be responsible of what we write. I am not saying that writing in a book is "safe" enough. Imagine you lose this book diary and one day, someone finds it and hold you responsible of what you have written in the book, won't you still end up in deep shit? I am not a kia si kia but it is definitely not wise to speak / write without even thinkiing twice, especially in a country like Singapore.

So think smart and write smart ...

Mood swing ... AGAIN!

What's wrong with me these few days?! Why am I so upset and so moody?? Is it because of my work stress? Or is it because I am still single and lonely?

What's wrong with me?! Just like what EYE-Z has always said in his blog, why does the world always like to F*** my brain??

Why is it that my "mood swing" seems to "visit" me every now and then, like the DA YI MA who visits the ladies every month ...

I feel weak and sick at this point of time ... I feel that I have slimmed down again ... I could feel the bone of my wrist ... eeee ... Am I dieing? ...

Oh PLEASE ... Stop F***ing my brain ... =(

Funny encounter ...

I had my haircut at Storm last Saturday afternoon. It has been quite sometimes since I stepped into another salon. No complaint this time round except I waited quite a while for the hairstylist (What to do, he is the Creative Director there mah) ... Just one word - Nice! =) After my haircut, I decided to go home first for a shower before going out again. As usual, I took a shutter bus home as I was way TOO LAZY to walk home. Besides, I didn't want to sweat under the sun. =P

When I got to the bus interchange, the bus apparently had just left a while ago as I was the first and only one in the queue. Waiting patiently for the next bus and minding my own business (of course, letting others admire my new hairstyle at the same time … haha), here came a group of aunties. From the conversation they were having, I knew they were taking the same bus as me. But I didn’t understand why they ended up in another queue instead. After much arousing discussion, they got into the same queue as me. Some queued behind me and some just stood in front of me.

I was okie that they queued in front of me as they are all elderly people. What shocked me was the auntie who was just in front called me “UNCLE” and asked whether I wanted to go first anot. It was so ridiculous, right? … Do I look like an UNCLE to you?? haha ...

Anyway, these aunties eventually didn’t board the same bus as me as one of the aunties just commented saying another bus also passed by her place and with that, off they went, trying to “run” as fast as possible to catch the bus. Can you imagine how the scenario was like, with a bunch of aunties chasing after a bus … haha ... =P

*This posting has NO element of despising / looking down on aunties … *Fingers crossed* PEACE!

Lessons on Life

There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.

The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.


The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise.

The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.

The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.

The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.

Moral: Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later ...

I feel happy for them!

On Hari Raya, EYE-Z invited me and the gang to his house for a small get-together. As usual, the rest came late. =P So while waiting for them, EYE-Z and I had our fair bit of teasing and sharing. Although his place was very very very far from mine (in the east side you know) and I am the typical kind who is TOO lazy to travel from one end to another, but I am glad I was there as I get to know how EYE-Z and the rest were doing recently.

Pee and Jac were not there that night as Pee was not well and J was with her to look after her. I told Pee before that I am happy for her as she has found her true love ... they are still together now, as loving as before. =)

Jia just broke off with her boyfriend. Yes, she may feel lonely at times but she still has us. No point of holding on if there is no "future / outcome" . I am pretty sure she could find someone in no time as she is a nice, pretty gal who deserves a much better guy.

EYE-Z started working and I hope he will stay with this job as I think he will enjoy it. Plus, it is not good to job-hop around. He also started flirting around, opps ... haha I mean dating. I will be happy for him if he finds someone suitable very soon, but provided he knows what he wants also lah haha ... not just S ... haha

Jon is finally attached, after so many bad relationship experiences. Though I am not close to him, but I am really pleased that he has someone who loves him so much as it is really not easy to find someone dear.

As for me ... Life has not started ... have not found my special one ... So now, I cross my finger to hope for the best ... =)

2 big P in life ...

Especially when you are in your 20s and of course, if you are as vain as me wahaha ... :P

2 P in life ...

Problem = A question to be considered, solved, or answered;

Pimple = A small swelling of the skin, usually caused by acne;

Pimple = Problem??? Does this equation apply to you?

I am certain all people like to look presentable, smart, neat, handsome, pretty ... at all times. Once you find some unwanted round dots that don't belong to any part of your face, body or leg, you tend to get rid of it one by one.

It applies to your working desk, when you are on leave /MC for the day and return the following day, there will be some unuseful materials, like rubbish left by others or new workload given by bosses, which you will definitely like to clear them away at one shot.


There are many reasons why pimples will "visit" us once in a while.

1. Stress
2. Not enough sleep
3. Oily face
4. Indigestion
5. Never drink enough water
6. Heaty

and the list goes on.

It is always advisable to treat these "usual customers" when they are small. I am not asking you to squeese them out when they are not ripe or touch them with your hand every now and then as this will worsen the pimples and they will become more reddish and bigger after sometimes. It will then be much harder for us to say "bye bye" to them. Worse still, they may leave permanent "goodbye kisses" on your face, which you will need to live with them forever.

Some people tend to avoid discussing problems / "run away" from them when problems start to surface, leaving them aside unattended.

"Sorry, I don't want to talk about it now."

They thought they may get the best solution to them after sorting out things ALONE. Two words - Irresponsible and Selfish.

Some may want to solve problems fast as they are rather impatient.

"Let us talk things out NOW. No point keeping mum!" "Talk leh ... "

They may think they are using the right words, right tone or even the right solution at the right time and place. But they are all WRONG.

"Sorry, we are not suitable anymore. Let us break off!"

Applying cream to your pimples doesn't mean they will go away in 1 day. Not attending to them also doesn't mean they will heal by themselves.

So I guess we should monitor closely on the condition of our pimples first before taking the 2nd move. Doing the right thing at the right time makes a lot of differences so let your heart guide your way and you won't go wrong. =)

"I am getting married ... "

Haha sorry hor, that person is not me lor. =) I am not so fortunate as I still have not found my other half.

Anyway, it doesn't even cross my mind that my close secondary school galfriend was getting married so soon, until she handed me the "RED BOMB" at one of our dinner dates. I thought she was joking only as she was always having small arguements / disagreements with her boyfriend (now her husband) back then.

But it is really true and I was honoured to be there at their wedding banquet to witness the beginning of their new chapter in life. What touched me most was the moment the newly wed marched in, with romantic love songs as the background music (though there was a irriating "monkey" walking behind the couple. I suppose he is my galfriend's notti cousin, who was trying to seek attention from all). The smile and the nod I got from the bride when she walked past me really made my heart feel so "warm" and it also made me realise once again that there is still LOVE in this world.

No matter what the reason(s) / logic why they got married so fast, one thing for sure is they do love each other. As her close friend, I sincerely hope the best for them and may they live happily ever after, like the Prince and Princess in the fairytale story.

Hmm ... I really wonder ... if one day I get married, will it be as "magical"? =)